There are situations that you just have to accept. People that you just have to accept. Circumstances that you just have to accept.
Can't change it. Can't fix it. Can't manipulate it. Can't erase it.
Sometimes you have to say: IT IS WHAT IT IS!
Paul says it another way... In Philippians 4:11-13, he says, "I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me."
Contentment isn't necessarily a natural response, especially to uncomfortable situations... Contentment is learned behavior. Like Paul, we must LEARN how to be content regardless of how high or low things may be.
We should always be content because God will cause all things to work together for our good.
Now, I warn you... There is a difference between CONTENTMENT and SETTLING. When you are outside of the will of God, don't get comfortable! You may find yourself settling in less that (God's) favorable situations. But, when you know that are exactly where God wants you to be, pray for God to give you His peace. He will do it. And when troubles come, you can say "IT IS WHAT IT IS!"
Scriptures to meditate on:
"All things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose." -Romans 8:28
"For I know the plans that I have for you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end." -Jeremiah 29:11
"And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." -Philippians 4:7
Prayer:
"God, thank you for your peace that surpasses understanding. Thank you for loving me in spite of me. Thank you for having plans for me. Even when there are situations that alarm me, you are very trustworthy. I know that I can depend on you. Help me to rest in your arms. Help me to learn the art of contentment. In Jesus name, Amen."